Wednesday, December 9, 2009

My Worst Day Yet!!!!!

Today is probably one of worst day yet!!! I felt so mad today, like I was betrayed!!! I hate liars. I just don't understand why people lie. Do you know why?????

Well today, this lady in my one of my class texted me and told me how "surprise" she was at me for giving her a low rating on the group project. She wrote in the text that she thought we were "friends" and she was going to end this "friendship" with me!! Not only that, but she told me that I was being DISHONEST, and I should "live and learn". What the hell does that mean??? Live and learn??? Man who is she kidding????

For one, I did the whole project on my own!!!!!!!!!!! I found all the damn information!!! I took all the stupid pictures for the PowerPoint!!!! I came up with the action plans, and did the put up the poster all on my own!!!! What did she contribute for this project??????? NOTHING!!!! That's because she was supposed to do the interviews, the action plans, and help me do the poster. But did she??? NO!!!! That's why I gave her a low rating on the group evaluation. At first, I gave her a zero out of ten, but I thought that I was a little mean so I gave her a six. Yet it seems like my goodwill is not being appreciated!!! Do you know what that lady did today????? She argued with the professor to change her grade, and said that she did contribute!!!! Before she made an F on the project, but after her "meeting" with my professor, he decided to give her a B!!!!!! Isn't that stupid????!!!!! That's not even fair!!!!!! Where is justice????? I guess that word doesn't even exist.

As frustrated as I was with all this crap, I decided to call my professor and ask him exactly why she got that grade. He told me that he knows that I did the whole project by myself, but he said that the lady keeps arguing and claiming that she helped, so he just gave her the second highest grade in our group. I didn't want to make my professor caught in the middle, so I told him I understand, but really I don't. If anyone understands, please explain how is that justice and fair?????

I texted that lady back after I talked to my professor, and I asked her what was I being DISHONEST about in the evaluation. I told her to tell me exactly what did I NOT DO in this project. I told her that I had a life too, and I had 5 exams on the last week of school on top of the project!!! I had to juggle between work, school, and my own personal life!!!!! I questioned her rude remark about "live and learn", and I told her that she should be happy with the grade that she got for practically contributing NOTHING!!!!

She texted me and sounded different, not as piss off as before. She told me that she knows that I did a lot of the project, and that if we are ever in a group again, she recommended that we stay at the same place. She ended her text by saying "let's move on. Enjoy your trip and happy holiday." Is this the same lady that ran her steam at me for giving her a low rating??? I knew for sure the lady had nothing to comment back and she didn't even answer my questions that I asked in the text message. Why?? Because she doesn't know how!!! She was just spitting crap in that text message, and she thought that I have no comment.

Even though school is over and I received the highest grade on that project, but I still angry!!! I can't believe that she claims to my professor that she did help, and points her finger at me for her low grade at first when she did nothing!!!!!! That lady makes me mad!!! Over my Thanksgiving break, she was supposed to send me the information from her interviews and she was supposed to devise the action plans. Obviously that NEVER happened because I ended up doing that whole stupid project ALL ON MY OWN!!!!! I hate it how she wanted credit for something that she didn't put any effort in. There's no such thing as a free lunch. Haven't she heard of that???? I hate it how she called me "DISHONEST". I DON'T LIE!!! I HATE LIARS!!! I hate it how she blamed me for her bad grade. If she would have tried, I would have given her a higher rating. I hate it how she can just stormed in my professor's office and argued about her grade to make him raise her grade. How is that fair??? I hate it how my professor just raised her grade up just because of her loud and rude tone.

I'm really pissed off. I can't let go of this. I don't like people like this. We are all mature adults in college, so why must she act like we're in elementary school? It's not like I care if she doesn't want to treat me like her "friend" or if she wanted to end this "friendship". That's totally fine with me!! We weren't even friends before, just classmates!! She just ruined my day!! I need to take a deep breath and look ahead. I have my whole life ahead of me. Who is she to interfere with my goals???

2 comments:

  1. LOL. I am taking it easy. I just putting my emotions on paper. Not like how that lady steams off her emotions. :)

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